Comments on: What the hell is going on?

By: Ashish

Ashish — Sat, 10 May 2008 07:33:06 +0000

No need to look it up, I remembered. :D I am teh disciple of teh Sherlock Holmes! :P

By: Cat

Cat — Fri, 09 May 2008 11:43:38 +0000

Yeah, it’s my birthday next week. Well done in looking it up.

By: Ashish

Ashish — Fri, 09 May 2008 07:39:11 +0000

Cat: Changing a few things will. How? Because no matter the size of that thing, it is STILL a part of your life and it still impacts who you are. And btw, if you’ve wasted 25 years, and assuming you live upto 70 [just assuming] you’ve still got far more years to set things right. It’s just a case of beginning.

[Hey you could help me conquer the world if you want too! :P ]

P.S. I think that the “almost” will be gone by next thursday right? :D

By: Cat

Cat — Thu, 08 May 2008 12:46:09 +0000

No, but I’m still almost 25 with far too many years apparently wasted on things that no don’t seem to matter any more. And changing just a few things will improve what?

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By: Ashish

Ashish — Thu, 08 May 2008 10:18:53 +0000

Goingalong with the flow for more than eight years? How will anything ever change?
The thing is, like how you are doing now, to get up and take notice from time to time. Then change a few things [that donot work the way you want] and see how it works and so on. There is no point in crying over spilt milk. If you think that you picked the wrong friends then its a good enough time to change. I mean you’re not hovering at the ancient age of 97 are you? :P

Believe in yourself Cat. That is the only way you can control the flow. Go to Square A if you want, and begin again. :)

By: Cat

Cat — Thu, 08 May 2008 09:44:27 +0000

True, but realising that all friends have let me down surely says something about my ability to make decisions/choose my friends?

By: Amit

Amit — Thu, 08 May 2008 04:16:03 +0000

@Cat : There are so many aspects of friends which gets revealed over a period of time. That does not mean that you have taken a wrong decision. As you said, you did what you felt was right at that point of time. We always have the power to change things around us but it requires a very strong willpower. You can also do that.
We all have made a lot of wrong decisions in our lives. But that does not stop us from making another one. Does it? Its an evolving and ongoing process. Consider each person as an experience and learn from it.

By: Cat

Cat — Wed, 07 May 2008 15:08:37 +0000

Goingalong with the flow for more than eight years? How will anything ever change?

By: Ashish

Ashish — Wed, 07 May 2008 09:22:12 +0000

Cat: That does not mean the decisions are wrong. Perhaps you are looking it the other way? Remember someday these decisions might be significant, those very same people may play an important part. Go along with the flow, but never let the flow control you. Try changing some parts of your ways, not all of them. If they yield good results, I think you will have your answer. :)

By: Cat

Cat — Wed, 07 May 2008 09:16:15 +0000

If there are no results after all this time surely that means that the decisions were wrong as there have been no results?

By: Ashish

Ashish — Wed, 07 May 2008 08:34:06 +0000

So what does that show about me? Does it mean that I’ve been choosing the wrong friends? Does it mean I’ve made wrong decisions? Does it mean I’ve been foolish in the past? Does it mean all my priorities are wrong? Does it mean I need to change myself?
No kid already knows how to swim, its when he’s thrown into the pool that he learns how to flap his hands about and swim. Ultimately it is more satisfying. However you research your decisions, you’ll only know if they are good when the results come. :)

Does it mean I need to change myself?
Probably yes, probably no. Maybe a little to match your situation. However remain the person, the CAT I know. :)

Take care Cat.